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Care planning for parents

When a parent needs more help each year

The first questions are usually small: who can sign, who talks to the doctor, who pays. We answer those, then plan for the bigger ones.

Start with the papers that let you act: a power of attorney for money and a health care directive for medical decisions. Then we look at how care would be paid for, whether through savings, insurance or Medicaid, and how to protect the home and a spouse who stays in it. If your parent never signed anything and can no longer decide, we explain guardianship and what it asks of you.

Where we usually begin

  • Powers of attorney for money and for health care

  • A review of how long-term care would be paid for

  • Medicaid planning that protects a spouse and the home

  • Guardianship, when there are no papers

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Fees

What each piece costs

Court filing fees for a guardianship are separate and set by the court. We give you the amounts before anything is filed.

  • Flat fee

    Powers of attorney

    For one parent who can still sign and wants someone ready to step in.

    • Money and health care papers

    • A signing visit

    • Copies for the people named

  • Flat fee

    Long-term care review

    We read the finances and tell you what the options are.

    • A review of papers and accounts

    • A written summary for the family

    • A flat quote for any planning after

  • Quoted

    Guardianship

    When a parent can’t decide and signed nothing.

    • Quoted after the first meeting

    • Hearing preparation

    • Reports the court asks for

What sons and daughters ask us

My mother has memory problems. Is it too late for papers?

Not always. She can sign if she understands what she’s signing, and we’ll meet her to find out. If she can’t, we’ll talk about what else is possible.

Do we have to sell the house to pay for care?

Not necessarily. There are ways to plan for care costs without losing a home, and some work only if started early. A review tells you where you stand.

I live on another island. Can I help from here?

Yes. Many of our families coordinate by video, and we’ll include you in every meeting you want to join.

Bring one parent, one folder and your questions

Papers don’t have to be in order. We’ll sort them with you.